REALITY

I had so much expectation and believed in the love we shared, I never taught it was going to end and we will have to act like strangers. It was so funny how everything played out but am still thankful I love with a true and pure heart. sometimes people don't understand what it takes to be able to let go after creating a life with someone full of memories and plans for the future. 

Love is an amazing feeling I can say that for sure, looking forward to the day I meet someone who wants something real. A man who is matured enough to know the value of what he has ,known that we both not perfect, there will be argument but it should never lead to disrespect, all them silent treat is immature and

only create more distance. A man who is not afraid of changes and want to be a better man for himself and for me. I want him to be able to tell me when am wrong or do things he don't like.

I  am looking forward to each day and praying 💓💓🧡and hoping God grant my heart desires.

True Worship

Worship has so many meaning to different people to my understanding of what it is I will say is an act of connecting with God.

The act of worshiping can be done by praises, dancing, serving God in his house and by prayer and fasting. As children and daughters’ of the most high our worship should be a link to open heaven for blessing, good health, break through to any problem and as well as healing.

The bible tells us of stories of women who have called to God in worship and he answered. The book of Esther (4:15-17) tells us how Esther and the Jews call to God in worship by prayer and fasting and he heard their cry and the evil plans of Haman to kill the Jews was destroy.

Also the bible tells us in (Luke 1:5-17) about Elizabeth and her husband Zechariah a priest who had no child and he always worshiped God in prayers was blessed with a child at their old age. Hannah was another woman in the bible who cried out to God in prayers because of her barrens and she saw the result of her worship.

We saw with the situation they faced they never gave up and where truthful in their worship to the Lord and at the end they were rewarded joyfully.

As believers we should strive to offer true worship. True worship is when we give God our best and not the left-overs. All throughout the Old Testament, God demanded the very best from His people: the firstlings of the flock, the firstborn of man and animal, and the first fruit of our harvest. When the site and the sacrifice were offered to David free of charge so that he might appease the wrath of God, because he had presumptuously numbered Israel without God's approval David said: "No, but I will surely buy it from you for a price; nor will I offer burnt offerings to the Lord my God with that which costs me nothing" (1 Sam. 24:24). The heart that says: "Let's worship God, but let's do it as quickly, conveniently, cheaply, and effortlessly as possible" does not understand the very essence of what true worship is all about. If God would not accept "the leftovers" from His people in the days of the prophets (Mal. 1:7-8, 10; cf. Amos 5:21; Hos. 6:4-6; Isa. 1:11-15), He will not accept anything less than the very best that we have to offer Him today.

But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father is seeking such people to worship him. (John 4:23) 

Hurt

I remembered his birthday and I have been making plans for it for months now and I wanted it to be a day we both will cherish forever. But unfortunate we had some issues before his birthday and I was really hurt that I decided not to wish him or say anything. 

When I think of those words he told me I just can't believe a man who had told me how much he loves me and want to spend his life with me will say how much he regret been with me, loving me and helping me during when I needed it most. I felt betrayed and every single promises broken too. Despite that I still never gave up on him till he used the word cool, then I understood that his ego , pride and way of thinking wont let him admit or say sorry.  I wonder why tell someone that has always loved u , had your back and even shared there family with you that if things don't work out we'll as u plan  u will let her go and fine someone else. Did it ever occur to u that u both should have talk about it together before making such decisions. Do u think is okay to think someone is disrespect because of how the chose to react to some setting things. Have u sat down and think of how many times u have disrespected her by talking to your ex and even letting her know u did, talking to her rudely just to prove a point, walking out dead of the night knowing is not safe for u and keeping her in suspends think something bad might happen, if you talking to people or saying hi to them is no problem but when I do it becomes disrespectful because am a woman. I know have messed up in some places and things which u said u didn't like and I said sorry and never repeated it again. When two people from different culture, country  or even beliefs decides to be together and truly love and want to spend their life's together those things will never be a hindrance. 

HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW NIGERIA?

Nigeria is a country located in western Africa, a country rich in natural resource and its major income comes from the exportation of oil. A country comprises of more than 200 ethnic groups.

The most influential ethnic groups in Nigeria are the HAUSAS, IGBOS AND YORUBAS. But in generally the official language used by everyone is ENGLISH. When it comes to religion it is equal divided between Islam and Christianity just a few still practices their traditional belief.

It is a country full of culture from food down to their attire.  Some of the well known food in Nigeria are YAM, RICE,GARRI and Palm oil,a food item you find in every home in Nigeria.

 And when it comes to places to visit in Nigeria we have Obudu Cattle Range located in cross river state, a most see.And for those who love history Yannkari Game Reserve located at Bauchi state is another amazing place you don’t want to miss also. 

 

     

Places to visit in Malaysia

I can remember just like yesterday parking my bags and getting ready to go to an unknown land I know nothing about and getting worried if am even going to fit in, well is been more than 3 years now and I will say I fit in perfectly well. But at first it was a bit tough, the change of weather, food, friends and mostly the environment God i felt like runing back home because where I lived back home was cold and getting to Malaysia it was so hot I didn't feel like going out of the house but as  time went by I got use to the situation and it was all fun for me.

And over the years while living here I have come to like Malaysian food and my favorite so far is the is called Nazi Lemak. It a combination of rice, groundnut, small fishes, egg either boiled or fried depends on how the make them either ways is nice and with some cucumber too.

And talking about fun let me share some of the lovely places  have been to. The first place was Genting island let me say is  a must see place for anyone who like adventures is filled with so much fun games and has an amazing casino and the best part I like most about geting island is the weather the atmosphere is always cold so when heading that way you make sure your putting on some warm cloths.

And for sea food lovers like me I will suggest you visit Penang, another lovely place.The people are so friendly and what I love most is the night life just taking a walk along the beach and just feeling the cool breeze and enjoying every bit of the night.

So guys thanks for reading and I hope you guys try to visit some of this place and many more fun places too in Malaysia. 

Work it out before leaving

Work on that relationship before running out

 Sometimes people have this crazy idea on how their love life should be and at the end of the day things either work out or people end up heartbroken.

One thing for sure is that God's plans are different from ours,to us it hurts but God is preparing you for better and bigger things. if someone can be stupid or let me say crazy enough to break your heart despite the love you showed them or you gave and still feel your not good enough just because they found someone else or look down on you just because your not from same culture or any other excuses he or she can come up with all you need to do is let them be.Love is a wonderful thing and it brings joy not sadness, it builds and not destroy, it motivate and not bring a person down. it is a feeling that need to be felt by two people not just an individual.

These days  people go into relationship and when things get though they prefer to start a new relationship rather than work on the one they have.

We  should learn to work on a relationship before walking out so that one day you wont have regret why you never fought for them or feel you can just wake up one morning and  walk back into their life sorry to tell u by then a man who knows what it is to build or make a relationship work will be having them and doing what you fail to do.

Major tribe in Nigeria

The 3 major ethnic groups in Nigeria

Nigeria is a country located in western Africa  So far Nigeria is a country where they are over 200 ethnic groups and English is the universal language used in Nigeria.

These three ethnic groups are the most influential groups in the country HAUSA, IGBO and YOURBA.

HAUSA/ Fulani

The Hausa/Fulani people come from the northern part of the country and can found in cities like Kano, Jos, Lafia, Kastina, and Kaduna. They make up 29% of the population in Nigeria.

The Hausa/Fulani people like food made out of grains such as Maize, Millet and rice which are grounded into flour and the food know among them is called ‘TUWO’ which is made from the grounded flour. Another food is called the beans cake but in Hausa language is known as ‘kosai’ along side with koko in watery form which is made from either maize or millet.

The people from this region when it comes to attire they have restricted dress manner due to religious beliefs. The women wear cloths not reviling parts of their bodies. They are dressed in wrapper and a top to match made of different colorful materials, hair tie and a shawl used for covering. For the men the Jalabia and Babban Riga is well known attire among them.

The people from the region in Nigeria are Muslims.

IGBO

They IGBO’S come from the southern part of Nigeria and are well known for trading and farming. They are business minded people and They make up 18% of population in Nigeria.

People from this region have what is call Iwa Ji festival (new Yam festival) which is performed at the end of the rainy season (August) .This festive celebration brings all communities together in celebration of the new yam where they are folk dances, Masquerades and parades and many other entertaining performances.

People from this region have a popular alcohol beverage called Palm Wine. They Igbo peoples attire are of  Igbo traditional  type, for men, is generally made up of the Isiagu top which resembles the Dashiki  worn by other African groups. Isiagu (or Ishi agu) is usually patterned with lions heads embroidered over the clothing and can be a plain color. It is worn with trousers and can be worn with either a traditional title holder’s hat or with the traditional Igbo striped men’s hat known as Okpu Agwu. For women, a puffed sleeve Blouse along with two wrappers and a head tie are worn.  People from this part of Nigeria are mostly Christian just few of the people still practices their traditional beliefs.

 YORUBA

THE Yoruba people come from the western part and the make up 21% of the country’s population. People from this region are very traditional.

The Yoruba people are well known for giving birth to twins and it is know that the Yoruba present the highest dizygotic  twinning rate in the world (4.4% of all maternities) having the highest rate of twinning in the world, at 45-50 twin sets (or 90-100 twins) per 1,000 live births.

Twins are very important to Yoruba people and they usually tend to give special names. The first of the twins to be born is traditionally named Taiyewo or Tayewo, which means 'the first to taste the world and the second will be named Kehindegbegbon or Omokehindegbegbon  and can be shortened  to  Kehinde or Kehin which means ‘ The child that came last gets the right of the eldest’.

Yam is a common food among the Yoruba people which is used in making Iyan (Pounded yam). We also have Amala which is made by peeling the back of the yam and letting it dry which is later processed into flour.

Clothing materials traditionally come from processed cotton by traditional weavers. The basic being the Aṣo-Oke , which comes in very many different colors and patterns.

Yoruba wares are gender sensitive. Men wear Kẹmbẹ, Dandogo, Danṣiki, Agbada, Buba, Ṣokoto and matching caps such as (Eleti-Aja), dog-shaped cap and fila-ẹtu .

Women wear Iro (wrapper) and Buba (the top) with a matching head-gear (gele). For important outings, a Yoruba woman will add a Shawl (Ipele/Iborun) on the shoulder and can add different forms of accessories.

People from this region are both Muslim and Christians and some of them till today practices their traditional beliefs. 

The currency used in Nigeria is called NAIRA .